They both sound like good people. It isn't good to be serious all the time.

[ Yes that is an ironic poke at herself ]

I know it's not bonds, but it is something. Sometimes it's easiest to use the terms people have in common, even if they aren't quite right.

Bonds can have the right time and place, but as with everything, some people will rush headlong into them without thinking it through. That's nothing new, even if the consequences are high.