Oh. That's... a lot. So, I guess that'd make me... cisgender? [ it's not like he's done anything to change himself, after all. he doesn't wear drag. he's only thought about wearing a dress a few times. he'd be ugly in one anyway, so it doesn't really matter. ] And you... You said you're not cisgender, but you also said you're pretty sure you're not. Transgender? So, that makes you...

[ something he has no ideas about. still, he politely asks after a moment's silence: ]

Would you, um... Would you want me to call you something else?

[ it seems liek the right thing to ask. he's pretty sure, at least. ]